Tom and Tulio

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Tom and Tulio

We're Tom & Tulio, Loving Caring Guys Growing Our Family

We understand that you want to choose what's best for your child, so we thank you for considering us to raise your child as you make this difficult yet important decision to ensure the future of your baby.

The two of us met when we were young and we have been together for more than 15 years since including getting married in 2016. After all these years, we continue to love each other deeply and be each other's rock. Together, we are already a family, but it is with this long-term, bedrock relationship that we have built a foundation on which to grow our family. We hope a child will soon join our family, where they will be raised in a loving, caring, and nurturing home.

We each come from close-knit families who are very supportive and eager to share in the joy of raising children. Our families instilled in us the importance of togetherness and helping each other out, and we will utilize that experience to raise children with the values of knowing right from wrong, empathy and respect for others, as well as the importance of confidence, independence, and happiness. We hope to get to know more about you, and you about us, and we can't wait to meet you to discuss the future.

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Who We Are

We met in San Francisco via mutual friends and clicked right away. We have been together for over 15 years, domestic partners for ten years, and married for almost five years! We enjoy spending time together, whether it be trips around the world, quick weekend drives to nearby towns, hikes in local nature reserves, or just sitting at home together talking and watching TV by the fire.

Tom is an information technology specialist, and Tulio is a broker for industrial-scale food processing equipment. Tom's mother is from Ecuador and his father is of European descent. Tulio's parents are both from Mexico.

Tom enjoys home improvement projects, and Tulio likes to get his hands dirty working in the garden. We’re happy to visit family and are always eager to host our nieces and nephews at our home for a weekend (or even longer!) during vacations from school.

What Led Us to Adoption?
3 leavesWe always planned to adopt. We have many friends who have gone through the adoption process, and one of our aunts adopted both of her daughters. We know from hearing of their experiences and witnessing their interactions how rewarding adoption is and the joy that comes from it. Our parents are excited for more grandkids, and we are thrilled to begin the journey to impart our own knowledge, values, and experiences with a child or children and to grow our family together.

Our Extended Families
We have very large extended families spread throughout the United States, Ecuador, and Mexico, with multiple aunts, uncles, and cousins. Our parents, siblings, nieces, and nephews also live nearby, so we visit together regularly. Tom has one brother, a sister-in-law, a niece, and a nephew; and Tulio has a sister and brother, in-laws, and nine nieces and nephews.

Every year before Christmas, we enjoy the Mexican tradition of getting together and making tamales. We set up an assembly line around the table and everyone (kids and adults) participate and spend quality time together. We celebrate Christmas Eve with Tulio's extended family, continuing the tradition of a late dinner, socializing, and then watching our nieces and nephews open their gifts at midnight. We celebrate Christmas Day with Tom's extended family, exchanging gifts and then sitting down to an early Christmas dinner. Every Easter, we gather for the Ecuadorian tradition of making fanesca, an Easter seafood stew.

It is with our regular visits, as well as these traditions, that we keep our close connections with our families. We will raise our own family to be an integral part of these traditions, ensuring they will also experience and treasure these close family connections.
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Adoption Diary

Dominican Republic and Puerto Rico Trip

We spent two weeks travelling through the Dominican Republic and Puerto Rico. Wonderful people, beautiful places, and a great time! The trip included a short flight to Culebra Island in Puerto Rico. We even got to go snorkeling with sea turtles!

Solar Eclipse Trip in Oregon

First we drove to Portland for several days with one of our nieces and one of our cousins. Then we met up with Tom’s brother’s family to see the total solar eclipse. It was amazing and it was great to spend time with family.

Thank You for Visiting Our Adoption Profile

We want to thank you for considering us as adoptive parents for your child.

We truly appreciate your kindness and strength and look forward to hearing from you.


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