Bill & Cindy

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Bill & Cindy

Authentic and creative couple who love to travel. Feel free to contact us! billcindycousins@gmail.com | 855-299-4408

Thank you so much for taking the time to learn about us and for considering us as you make the difficult decision of who will parent your child. We hope that you will be able to see the love we have for each other, our families and our future child. We are so excited to become parents and welcome a child into our home and family. We have been hoping to grow our family for years, and it has consumed a large part of our lives and hearts. While we do not know what our family will look like in the future, we do know who we are as a couple, and the love, stability and opportunity we have to share with a child.
Our work schedules are extremely flexible, with Bill being self-employed and Cindy working in a family business. We are able to rearrange schedules to accommodate the needs of a new baby and growing child with ease.
We have been volunteers in the dog rescue community for over 10 years now and have fostered about 52 needy dogs. We have picked the homes for each one after we rehabilitated them and got them healthy and ready for their forever home. The friends we have made and the support we have for adopting a child of our own is far-reaching.
A typical day with us is very laid back. Bill loves cooking, especially grilling in the summer. We enjoy movie night on the weekends, nights out for Mexican food and having friends over for cook outs to catch up. We LOVE road trips and take a few short trips a year to explore new places. We take a vacation every August and every February or March. We love travelling to Mexico, cruising the Caribbean, Myrtle Beach and to Florida. We are looking forward to experiencing these trips with a child, especially Universal Studios and Disney!
We are aware of the adoption process, having several close friends that have gone through it and also have connected and communicate with families that have recently adopted. We are grateful for these connections and know they will be a support to us in the future when we have a child of our own.
We want you to know how much respect and love we feel for you already. We cannot imagine what a difficult decision this is for you. You are showing so much strength and humility in this gesture of courage and love. If you decide to choose us as a family for your child, we would receive your baby as a precious gift to welcome with the utmost possible care, love, security and we will be forever grateful.

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Who We Are

“Looking for my Jedi Night” was Cindy’s online dating description. Bill answered it immediately. We both share a love for Science Fiction and are not ashamed of it. We love to travel the Caribbean and were married there in November of 2007. After 11 years of marriage, we are excited to extend our family with a child. We are looking forward to many new adventures and beautiful memories.

Adoption Diary

Broken Hearted

Today, we were supposed to be hitting the road on our way to adopt our son, being born tomorrow. For a month, we believed he was ours. The nursery was changed from girly to Star Wars (still can be girly in Cindy’s opinion!). Our bags were packed, the baby’s bag was packed, the car seat was in the truck, his bassinet right next to our bed, the pack & play in the office, a rocker in the living room, his clothes all washed and put away, we had a short list of names to discuss on the drive, the birth mother’s gift was thoughtfully put together and packed… We spent a month preparing for our son. We even asked if she was still in the “interview” stage, but we told we were the only couple she was speaking to. I explained some of my questioning may seem off because we had an attempted scammer before. A woman who was not pregnant, who has spent years hurting couples who cannot have children, had attempted to scam us with a promise of twins being delivered in May. Luckily with fact checking, we caught it quick- but it was not without let down, being devastated and feeling violated. It took days to recover. But how can we put a wall up? We cannot- if we want a baby, we simply must trust you, the birth moms.
After a call from a young 18 year old mom having her 2nd child, we knew this was the one. How could an 18 year old scam us? We were so wrong. A day and a half before we were to head her way, we found out she was working with several couples. But we were the only ones she took money from. I even paid her phone bill so she could talk to other couples. The devastation cannot be put into words.
This is not a job posting for scammers stating we are an easy target. This is a post explaining how we WILL NOT raise your child. We will not raise your child to hurt others. We will raise your child to be kind to others. To be truthful and respectful. To understand how to process hurt when it happens. We will raise your child to be honest.
All of the clothes in the picture were delivered today, the day we were supposed to leave to get our son. I cannot bring myself to return them. Looking at them, taking the tags off and putting them away- it is hope. Hope that we will indeed have a child, and that a birth mother out there will think we are just perfect to raise her baby. We can’t stop hoping it will happen soon. And we will teach our child not to give up hope.

Thank You for Visiting Our Adoption Profile

We want to thank you for considering us as adoptive parents for your child.

We truly appreciate your kindness and strength and look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely,

Bill & Cindy

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