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CJ & Patrick


CJ & Patrick
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We always knew we wanted children & look forward to building our family & writing the next chapter of our story together

Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We admire your bravery and courage in considering adoption. We recently expanded our family and welcomed our son Jack though adoption. We are eager and excited to continue growing our family and Jack can't wait to be a big brother. We are grateful to have this opportunity to share our story and we look forward to getting the chance to know you better.

CJ + Patrick + Jack

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Who We Are

Our story begins when we met in Hoboken, NJ in the fall of 2012. We struck up a fast conversation and realized very quickly we both had many things in common, amongst them mutual careers in real estate, love for arts and sports in general, specifically football. Also, we learned that we lived on the same street, just a few blocks away from each other. After dating for two years, Patrick proposed to CJ on the roof of a building in Manhattan as the sun set on a fall day. About a year later, we married in Nantucket, Massachusetts, an island in the Atlantic, surrounded by our families and friends. This was a special place as it was our first vacation spot together and has become a yearly vacation tradition. We moved across the river from New Jersey and now live together in upper Manhattan and both work in New York City. Since we first met, we always knew we wanted children and look forward to building our family and writing the next chapter of our story together.

Patrick was born and raised in northern New Jersey, the third of four children. His parents, Betty and Carl, have been married 45 years and split their time between NJ and Naples, FL and can't wait to welcome a sixth grandchild to their family. We love visiting them down in Florida in the winter to enjoy the warmer weather, the pool and the beach. Summers in NJ are perfect for barbeques and family get togethers. Patrick's older sister Cara, and her husband, Bryan, live in northern NJ (about a half hour from Patrick & CJ) and have three children – Brynn (9), Whitney (8) and Reid (6). Patrick's middle sister, Amanda, and her husband, Jarrod, live in Harrisburg, PA and have two children, Colter (5) and Everly (newborn!). All five of the cousins love to play together and look forward to adding another cousin to the mix. Patrick's younger brother, Kevin, is ten years younger than him and lives in northern NJ where he is an elementary school teacher and is also an excellent babysitter.

CJ grew up in a suburb just north of Cincinnati, Ohio with his mother, Kelli and step dad, John. His mother was adopted as a baby and very excited about our choice to pursue an open adoption. He was surrounded by a large, loving family in Cincinnati and was the oldest of seven cousins. His father, John (yes, they have the same name) traveled in the United States Air Force and remarried to his step mother, Rakel in the summer of 1993. They currently reside in St Louis, MI which has been home for the last 10 years. CJ has two younger sisters, Annette who is currently a Sophomore at Illinois University and Kristina who is a Senior at Edwardsville High School. Everyone in CJ's family is looking forward to there first grand baby especially his sisters who need another reason to come visit them in New York City! ;-)

Adoption Diary


In late July, we traveled out west to the Idaho/Oregon border town of Ontario to meet the newest addition to our family.  We had the chance to spend some time with the birth mother, her children and her family and friends, and late in the evening of August the 2nd, our first child, John Carl “Jack” was born and it was LOVE at first sight for us.
He was a healthy baby boy and weighed in at 7 pounds, 2 ounces and 19 inches long.  We spent the night with him at the hospital and it was an emotional night we will never forget.  The following day we took him home to our hotel in Boise for the next week while we waited to get approval from the states of Idaho and NY to come home. 
We had an exciting few days with him in Boise – going on some walks, visiting the zoo, getting our first check-up and spending time with his grandmothers who also made the journey out with us. 
On Jack’s one-week birthday – we flew back to New York city, via Dallas.  By the end of the day, Jack was home in NYC, having already visited 5 states in his first week on the planet.  His big “dog” brother Hamlet, our Great Dane, was excited to meet him.
We’ve had lots of friends and family support and visits.  It’s be a dream come true and we are so excited and blessed to have this addition to our family! 

Visit from our Friends and their Baby

Our close friends, Robb & Christina, came to NYC from their home in San Francisco for the weekend.  It was the first visit with their newborn baby - Margot.  We were so excited to meet her and spend time with her. 

On Sunday, we had them and a bunch of friends over for a dinner party.  Patrick made home made Babka and bread and truffle Mac n Cheese to go along with a honey baked ham.

We loved playing with Baby Margot - she’s so cute.  We can’t wait to be fathers ourselves.

Thank You for Visiting Our Adoption Profile

We want to thank you for considering us as adoptive parents for your child.

We truly appreciate your kindness and strength and look forward to hearing from you.


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