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Jonathan & Jill

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Jonathan & Jill
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We will delight in your little one all of our days and will count it a great joy to be his or her parents!

Dear Precious Mother,

We can only imagine the emotions you are experiencing at this moment in time regarding the chain of events that has lead you to this letter. Maybe you feel overwhelmed because this pregnancy was not in the plan you had for your life. Maybe you desire to parent this child, but just don't have the support or resources to do so at this point in time. Whatever your stresses might be, we admire your courage to give birth to this child amid the difficulty and uncertainty you are feeling. Be encouraged.This baby is in God's plan! Please know that we have prayed for you and every other expectant parent that happens to read this letter. We have prayed that the Lord would protect you, provide your needs, give you grace, and grant you much wisdom and comfort as you try to make decisions regarding the future of this little one. We made this profile because God planted a desire for adoption in each of our hearts long ago. Now that we have been married 15 years and have had three biological children, the Lord has set our feet on this path full-force to find our fourth child through adoption. His timing is perfect and we trust that He has us looking right now for a reason. As you are looking for answers to questions, so are we. We are praying for direction and wisdom too, and are asking that if the Lord wants us to adopt, He'll connect us with the parent that He planned for us to meet more than 15 years ago. We are looking to find a loving mother that is considering making an adoption plan for her baby. We are willing to make a plan that would be as open or closed as this mother would feel comfortable. If this parent might be you or someone you know, please keep reading and get to know our family a little better. We hope that it will be clear to see how much love is growing for our child in our own hearts and in the hearts of many friends and family that are closely connected with us. So much love and joy is just waiting to be poured out on this little one without reserve! May God's grace and peace be with you on this journey! If you desire to speak with us further, please reach out to us through the number or email address provided at the top of this page. We look forward to supporting you on this journey and loving you and this little baby forever.
Love,
Jonathan and Jill

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Who We Are

We love our family! When we met back in the year 2000, we couldn't have dreamed of a better life than the one the Lord has been so gracious to give us!

When we were just the ages of 16 and 19, we both talked about how we would love for adoption to be in our future together. We were married in the year 2002 and Jill looked into adoption, but for our meager wages and still being in college, we didn't move forward right away. Fast forward three years and the Lord decided it would be best to grow our family biologically at first.

In the years of 2005, 2008, and 2013, we were given our 3 most precious earthly gifts! They stretch us, grow us, and teach us in their own unique ways, and we love them an indescribable amount. This May we celebrated our 15 year anniversary, and we are thrilled to finally get to pursue our dream of adopting a baby. We know that the Lord planted this desire in each of our hearts, and that for some reason He delayed us 15 years from beginning the process. We believe His timing is perfect! If He hadn't delayed us, you wouldn't be reading this right now and considering us for this monumental task!

Our life is pretty regular. We are not super fancy or important people if you put us in a line up. We didn't come from families like that either. Jonathan is an educator for schools in a particular county in West TN. He is also the pastor of our sweet church and has been for 9 years. Jill used to teach parenting sessions and counseled troubled families, adoptive families, and troubled teens after she finished her Master's degree in Counseling 10 years ago. Now she's at home full-time and homeschools all of our kids! She loves being with them and teaching them (and learning a lot with them too!). We love God, love being together, going to the beach and other fun places, reading books, jumping on the trampoline,riding bikes around the neighborhood, and being with our friends, family, and our church familly. Our life is simple, but it is full of fun, joy, and peace!

If you asked us what our wishes for each of our children were, it would be this. We are daily trying to build a legacy for them. One where the Lord is honored above all and where that love for God allows us to love others well. We desire them to know the peace and joy that having a relationship with Christ brings, in ways that all other earthly things cannot satisfy. We both as their parents are trying to model this and teach this daily to our children...and we will seek to do the same for this little one that is entrusted to us. We desire to build a legacy of hard work, integrity, virtue, compassion, and gratefulness. We are so happy to walk alongside our children in this huge task of growing them into wonderful, responsible, and kind adults that will have firm foundations upon which to build their own families one day!


THESE ARE A FEW OF OUR FAVORITE THINGS:

Jonathan:
Loves reading, working out at the gym, swimming, bike riding, listening to Blues, Motown, 80's, and Christian Hip Hop music, listening to audio books, camping, fishing, hiking, traveling, watching Akira Kurosawa movies, coffee, cheeseburgers, Chinese food, and eating at BB Kings on Beale St in Memphis!

Jill:
Loves making beautiful things and decorating spaces, crafting, blending her own teas, learning about nutrition and how to keep our family healthy, taking care of others, going on trips, reading with the kids, being with her friends, drinking coffee, simplicity, visiting antique shops and yardsaling, eating popcorn with M&Ms or Raisinets mixed in when we watch a movie.

OUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT:
We used to love to go out to eat and to see movies or to paint pottery or other various things. We still like these thing, but honestly, ordering Shrimp Pad
Thai for takeout with cream cheese wontons and watching Netflix in our PJs is our most favorite relaxing date when the kids are away for this current season of parenthood!

TRAVEL-WE LOVE EXPLORING NEW PLACES TOGETHER!

We really enjoy traveling as a family. We mostly do road trips, and our children have built up endurance for long car rides since they experience them early-on in life! A fun fact about our family: We took a vacation to the beach when Salem was just 7weeks old! She was the tinest little vacationer we'd ever had. She slept in her seat a lot and Jill carried her in a wrap mostly. We take an 8-10 day vacation to the beach every summer. We look forward to it all year!:) During the rest of the year, we do short get-aways to see museums, landmarks, themeparks, and the like...just whatever we can find to get into! For day trips, it's common for us to take the kids to the Memphis Zoo, the Discovery Park of America, the Pumpkin Patch in the fall, playing at parks, doing nature hikes, or other things that we have opportunities to do and think might be fun to experience together. Three future travel hopes we have for the next 5-7 years are: 1. Fly to a fun destination together to let the children experience riding in an airplane, 2. Visit Universal Studios when the baby gets a little older, 3. Take the children on a cruise with us. Here are some pictures of fun things we've done and seen over the past few years. We can't wait to have another child to take along on all of our family adventures. What a joy it will be to witness him/her experience so many new and exciting places and things! We hope to give all four of our children wonderful life experiences that add up to treasured memories of their childhood. No matter how fancy or simple our outings are, we want the kids to know we plan them all simply because we adore spending time with them!

EDUCATION-WE LOVE LEARNING AND TEACHING OUR CHILDREN TO LOVE IT TOO!

Education is very important to our family. Jill has a Master's degree and Jonathan is about 6 hrs away from finishing his Master's degree as well. When Anna-Asher was 4, we decided that it would be best to homeschool her. We loved it so much, we are still homeschooling 7 years later. Anna-Asher, Deacon, and Salem are all EXCELLING academically--even beyond their grade level in some areas. We are very involved in a homeschool community where our children get weekly interaction with friends and a classroom environment. Our children are enrolled in gymnastics 2hrs per week as well. We love the freedom to customize the best education plan for each child and the ability to give them boundless opportunities to explore things that interest them. We also get excited when we can learn about something and then travel to let the kids see and experience the thing we learned about! It really helps them to be broadly exposed to a host of interesting things. Most of all, we love that they spend their days with their mama who loves them and who is ultimately concerned for their good, growth, and success. Apart from regular subjects, we also think it is important for children to learn to develop obedience to authority, good work ethic, and virtue. We want them to have love and honor for God and others in our home and outside of our home. Adding a baby into our homeschool day will be alot like it was when we added Salem into our day more than 4 years ago! She got to listen to us sing geography songs, was read to from birth,sat in on most of our lessons in her Bumbo seat or bouncy seat, and was on the go with us in her carseat or in a sling attached to Jill. This obviously benefited her, because she was able to begin reading at 3years old and could point to states on a U.S. map before the age of 2! We can't wait to add our sweet little baby into all of our routines. He/she will be throughly entertained as a baby, and as he/she grows up, he/she will have so many wonderful opportunities to learn new things, explore various interests, expand his/her natural abitilities and talents, and be whatever God has created him/her to be! We will be his/her firm support and will seek to offer wise guidance in whatever the future holds!

ABOUT JILL'S FAMILY:

We live a lot of life with Jill's parents and her sister's family because we all live near each other. Jill's parents have been married for 36 years and they are such a blessing to us and all of our children. Pappy and Mimi are so excited to add their 6th grandchild. They are such active and fun grandparents and all of the kids adore them. Whitney and Zach, Jill's sister and brother-in-law, have been married for 9 years and have 2 girls named Calli Anna and Charis. These two gals keep us cracking up all of the time with their shenanigans! Our children love spending time with their cousins. We all go to church together and are part of the same homeschool group so we see each other several times a week. Calli Anna donated all of her birthday money to our adoption fund so she could have "another cousin she could love forever." So sweet! Our new little baby will have so many people to love it! Jill has many aunts and uncles, cousins, and 2 grandmothers that live nearby. We all get together for holidays and birthdays and are very close. Our Thanksgiving is a huge family gathering at Jill's aunt and uncle's house. Thanksgiving is so sweet because not only is it our family, but it's extended family from KY, SC, NC and others plus tons of friends that have been 'grafted in' to our family. It is one of our favorite holidays!

ABOUT JONATHAN'S FAMILY:

Jonathan is from NC and his family still lives there. His mom and dad are both remarried and we get to see them and their spouses about one or two times a year. We always have plenty of people to see and find lots of fun things to do when we're there. Our kids get a lot of treats too when we see Nana and Papa and Bop and Gigi. Papa Jimmie and Ms. Brenda are honorary grandparents to our children too, and they always take us to our favorite breakfast place when we're in town. We took the kids hiking in Asheville this past May during our last visit.

OUR CHURCH FAMILY AND WHAT WE BELIEVE:

We believe that we exist to glorify God by enjoying Him forever. This is the foundation for our life, our family, and everything that we do. We believe in the biblical gospel--that God gave His only Son to provide us with righteousness and to die for our sins. Through faith and repentance we are counted as God's children in Jesus Christ. He adopted both of us into His family long ago, and we are secure in His love and in His promise. We labor to teach our children this gospel as the most important thing in all of life.
We are part of a precious, very strong, and healthy church body that Jonathan has been pastoring since 2008. This community of believers is as close to us as a biological family. We live life, serve one another, raise our children, and love Christ all alongside one another. Our church body has been a huge support to us as we pursue this adoption. They are praying for us, our baby, and our baby's mother on an ongoing basis.

OUR PROMISE TO YOU IF YOU SHOULD CHOOSE US:

If you choose us to parent your child through adoption, you will be beginning a thread of love that we promise to continue weaving throughout this child's entire life. We feel the great weight of the trust you would be putting in us and we would never take that responsibility lightly. We also take seriously the responsibility we bear before God to teach this child His ways. We promise to give him/her the same love that we have given the children that have come from our own bodies. We promise to provide a stable, safe, and loving home. We promise to give him/her every opportunity that the Lord allows to grow physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. Your selfless act of parental love that will put your child's needs ahead of your own will never be taken for granted. We also understand that there could be a father, siblings, grandparents, aunts, and/or uncles that will also be making this sacrifice of love for this child in order to support you in this adoption plan. We are overcome with emotion at the courage and strength that will be displayed on your part and on the part of those that love you and this baby in making this choice. This love, bravery, and strength will be the legacy that we will tell this child that he or she came from. We know that you will never forget this child or ever stop loving him or her and we will be sure to remind him or her of this often. What a wonderful gift that this child will be born into this world being loved by God and by two whole earthly families! We are willing to do an open adoption if that is what you choose. It would make our hearts glad to share updates and pictures about this little one that already has our hearts, so that you can celebrate his/her life and milestones along with us. Whatever your decision you make regarding this little one, we pray the Lord will give you peace in the gospel. We are so honored to be considered by you for such a monumental task.

Adoption Diary

Fall is almost here!

Tis the season for homemade granola bars. Salem was my helper today while the big kids were in the dining room doing their school. So happy I get to be at home with these 3. Life cannot be summed up in a textbook and sometimes our lives refuse to fit in pre-planned slots of time. I am grateful to school them in various subjects, but also teach them how to flex and bend to the needs of others when needed.  What a gift it will be for them to learn these life lessons early on. The most wonderful part though is just getting to be WITH them through thick and thin.
Tis the season for thinking about fall treats, festivities, crafts, and field trips.I can’t help but wonder if we’ll have our little one for the holiday seasons coming up. Either way, I know when the Lord brings him/her to us, it will be perfect timing. :-) Praying He will grow our patience and our trust in Him as we go along!

The Journey is Part of the Adventure

Our life has been busy! I haven’t updated our journal in over 2 weeks.  It is because this adoption journey led us to a special birthdad that reached out to us to adopt his almost 3 year old son.  Through much discussion and prayer we determined that we were not the right fit for the situation, but we were able to CONNECT HIM with parents that we personally knew that had been praying for this exact situation!! Now birthdad has peace, our friends and their girls are over the moon in love with this little boy, and the little guy is adjusting so well!  It is an experience I am still reeling from and that I will never get over as long as I live.  The Lord answered our every prayer for guidance, direction, and provision in this situation.  I am so thankful that we also were able to love and support birthdad and hopefully will have a lasting friendship with him, as he continues contact with us and with our friends through an open adoption. 

Also the past couple of weeks we have been blessed to communicate with several mamas that are thinking through an adoption plan for their babies.  I have so much respect and admiration for these ladies.  I cannot predict if we are connected to any of them because we will ultimately end up committing to an adoption with one, but I know that we are connected to them by God’s plan.  If we are only used as a means to give them friendship and encouragement right now, we trust Him and are glad for the task.  If we had never been contacted by them, we wouldn’t be praying for each one by name…but we are now!:) 

This means, little one, that we are still no more sure of where you will come from or when, but we feel sure in our hearts that you will certainly come when we have been faithful with all of the deeds God has given us to do while we wait for you.  There may be many more names we need to pray for before we finally hold you in our arms and take this profile down.  There may be more mamas that need to be told that they are valuable and precious in and of themselves, not just because they have something to offer that others want.  I never expected any of this to happen when we set out to find you, but God knew every single thing, every single text msg, every single email, every single phone call, every single pair of eyes that would read these words, and every single heart that might be encouraged to trust that God will provide for them. He is extending His hand to them. 

In the mean time, I have officially cleaned out the guest room closet and have made it your official closet!  The plan was to put you in your brother’s room to share with him, but I think that we are going to make a guest /nursery combo room until you are older and sleep through the night. You’ll likely sleep in our room several months in your bassinet anyway. I am excited for this new project!  It helps my heart and my mind to be busy right now, so that I don’t become discouraged.  I am praying for the Lord to help us to find you and to bring you into our family soon.  Your sister Salem helped me to sort and wash baby clothes on Monday.  She would pick up a onesie and say, “Mama, are babies REALLY this little?!” When I told her, “Yes, ” she smiled the biggest smile! Then she cradled the onesie gently in her little, chubby 4 year-old arms as if you were in it.  She swayed back and forth and said, “Mama, do you recognize me with our baby?  I just wish we had our baby right now!”

We all long to hold you and love you.  Sometimes the twists and turns in this journey are confusing, and sometimes the ups and downs are hard on our hearts. But we know the Lord hears us ask for you. He hears us and we know that He is answering us even now! Somewhere right now, there is a line of dominos falling.  The first domino to fall was set in full motion in April when we said YES to adoption in our kitchen conversation.  As we continue to pray, we know that a sequence of events has been set in motion that will eventually end with your birth and your adoption into our family.  Until then, we still have some road left to walk in this journey.  We don’t know how far and we don’t know how much longer it will take for us to get to the finish line, but God knows both of those answers.  We plan to keep trusting Him to lead us, and we will give Him praise when we find you.  The finish line will be a sight for sore eyes and tired hearts, but it will be so worth it in the end.  This journey was always a part of the adoption process that God had planned.  The mamas (and dad) that we are meant to be connected with have always been planned as a part of the journey too.  We know that in one adoption, God is doing a TRILLION other things in countless peoples’ hearts that we can’t see.  This is an adventure of trusting God, and while adoption is the end goal, the journey is inevitably part of this adventure!

Thank You for Visiting Our Adoption Profile

We want to thank you for considering us as adoptive parents for your child.

We truly appreciate your kindness and strength and look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely,

Jonathan & Jill

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