Single woman hoping to be a mom
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my profile, but I'm sorry you're in this position. I don't know your reasons for considering adoption and I won't tell you I can give your baby a "better" life than you, I will just share with you what kind of life I can provide.
I live in a suburb of Los Angeles. I have a 2-bedroom home with a large backyard. I have a very stable job that I've been at for 12 years. While I'm in the office most days right now, I do have the flexibility of working from home a few days a week also. I love animals and have 2 cats right now...I've also had a dog in the past, all rescues.
I have family close by, including my parents, sister, brother-in-law, nieces and my 91-year-old Grandma. We are pretty close knit and talk/see each other regularly. In my spare time, I've been volunteering at a cat rescue.
I'm not going to sugar coat things....I understand that adoption is complex. I'm not looking to adopt your baby and cut you out. I hope to have a relationship with you...whether it's as friends, as mothers or anything else. I know our relationship will change, we'll both have struggles, we'll likely not always see eye to eye...but I feel it's so important for you to be a part of your child's life (for both you and them). I understand you will go through periods where you may close yourself off to us...but I will never give up on you, unless you specifically ask me to. Even then, I will always make sure you know how to reach us.
Whether you ultimately choose adoption or to parent, I hope that you are able to find some semblance of peace.
I am an open book and will answer any questions you may have. If you call the toll free number for me, please leave a message if I don't answer. Or you can email me if you're more comfortable at firstname.lastname@example.org
*I will be updating and adding to my profile and hope you'll message me if there is anything you'd like to know about me.