Sean and I actually met in 4th grade! We went all through high school together and remember being in a couple of the same classes but that’s about it. After college, we were both new teachers in the district we attended, and our paths crossed while I was coaching volleyball. The connection was instant and we were married the following year. We have a strong relationship built on love, trust, laughter, and faith in God. These qualities truly pulled us through difficult days we faced as a couple and a family. Long story short….. after a very normal pregnancy, our first born son Daniel, was born with a genetic condition. Danny lived for 5 days before we said goodbye to him. Through our faith and the support of our amazing family and friends, we made it through this very difficult time of our lives. We went through a great deal of testing which all came back inconclusive. Our doctors concluded it was most likely a “fluke,” so with much courage and faith we tried again. We were over the moon with excitement to be blessed with our son Matthew! However, when Matthew was two years old, we endured another heartache when we found out during our pregnancy that it appeared our baby would be born with the same condition as Danny. We chose to continue our pregnancy and had our beautiful son Thomas with us for 3 days before we lost him. We hope anyone reading our story knows we are not looking for sympathy. Rather, we are choosing to share this story because it’s who we are as a family, and our losses, although very painful, showed us a great deal of love from our wonderful community and ultimately, led us to our amazing daughter, Emma. After we lost Tommy, it was clear that another pregnancy was far too risky. We began looking into the possibility of adopting. Emma’s story is just as miraculous as Matthew’s story, which we would gladly share if the opportunity arises. We were fortunate to meet Emma’s birth mom and grandparents. We have an open adoption plan with her and we hold her in the highest regard.
This brings us to today. Matthew and Emma are the center of our lives! Matthew is in 1st grade and Emma is in pre-school. We have always dreamed of having 3 children and we pray every night for our family to be completed through the blessing of adoption.
Carla: I am a 4th grade teacher and I just love my job. Working with young children is very rewarding to me. I enjoy playing volleyball, listening to music, and cooking. My family and friends are so important to me. We are very fortunate to have a close relationship with our parents, our siblings, and our nieces and nephews, most of whom live very close by.
Sean: Sean teaches High School Biology and he also is the Girl's JV Soccer, and the coach for Matt and Emma's kindercrosse (lacrosse) program Sean enjoys running, reading, playing the guitar, and he is an avid follower of all things sports related!
Matthew & Emma: Matthew is such a kind, smart, and fun-loving little boy! He loves music and is learning to play the piano. Emma has the most amazing personality and is full of spunk! She has brought so much laughter into our lives! Emma also loves music and loves to sing and dance. They both play lacrosse, love to be outside- running, biking, swimming, exploring nature trails, sledding, and simply playing. They get along very well and they would be the best big brother and sister.