Monroe

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About Me

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My Story

I was a little boy with big ideas and even bigger dreams. I wanted a good education, a good job, to travel the world, to see things, to have experiences, and to somehow make the world a better place. I was a dreamer and my biggest dream of all was to be a dad.


I’m lucky. I’ve lived out most of my dreams.


I graduated from Ohio State University and went on to study at two New York schools: Columbia University and the Fashion Institute of Technology. I am the well-educated man my younger self dreamed I would grow to be.


I’ve worked hard. I value hard work and independence and because I do I am also as professionally accomplished as that young boy would have hoped.


I became the Associate Vice President of Student Affairs and Diversity Initiatives at New York University where I’ve grown into the man I dreamed of being as a little boy.


My students mean the world to me and I have forged meaningful relationships with many of them. So often these relationships extend beyond the four years students spend within the walls of the university. I love my job and I feel it engages that part of me which longs to nurture and be a parent.


In my position I build relationships and connections, mentor students, create safe spaces, and help students process difficult feelings. My childhood self would be proud to know that I do regular speaking engagements about the power of love and giving.


I like to believe I am doing my part to help make the world, my little corner of the world anyway, a better, warmer, safer, more accepting place to live where all kinds of people can thrive.


Through my job I’ve been able to travel the world. I’ve experienced other cultures and been given the gift of serving communities worldwide.


I have also been blessed with many beautiful and loving friends who are an extended family to me and will be the same to my child. I love spending free time and weekends with friends. I especially love having friends and their families to my home for meals and shared time together.


I love cooking and music and my cat, Ashley, and visiting my brother and his family on the West Coast.


Indeed, my life is blessed but there is one dream left to dream. I have always known that I would be a father. I believe adoption is the path for me and another way for me to make a change.


You see, growing up in Cleveland I spent some time in the foster system after my parents split. Family was a big part of my life and I was raised by my mother, my grandmother and my great grandmother. My uncle became a sort of second father to me after my parents’ separation.


It was difficult at times growing up in a tumultuous home and being away from my biological parents but I grew to understand the reasons for it. I loved my parents and in some intuitive way, I knew they could not adequately care for me. They had things of their own that they had to grapple with and I was very grateful to the people who showed up to give me what they could not—security and guidance.


My grandmother, my uncle, the foster families gave me safety in those times and one of the things that strengthened my desire to be a father and got me through was imagining a time when I could do the same for a child.


I want to provide a safe and loving home for a child and support to a woman who, like my own mother, is struggling. I am ready to accept a child into my life and I hope that my background will make me a stronger, more empathetic parent.


I want us to spend time together during your pregnancy so I can get to know you. I want to be able to tell your child about this time of planning you and I shared and I want you to get to know me and to feel you can truly trust me to carry out the plans we make together.


My Home

photo of adoptive family's home in NYC I currently live in Bedford Stuyvesent in Brooklyn, New York. I have a large two bedroom apartment plus study in a townhouse. I live on the top floor in my building and have access to the roof which is great!

My neighborhood has many families from all heritages. Asian, African American and Caucasian backgrounds.

The neighborhood has many schools, restaurants, parks and churches. There is a nearby grocery store and a subway station about a ten minute walk away.

I have begun making changes to the apartment with parenthood in mind. I am committed to raising a child in a safe, stable and happy home filled with good will, deep faith, and diversity. Openness, honesty and acceptance will always be core principles of our home.

Monroe

adoptive family photo - Monroe My name is Monroe and I love people who are generous, kind, loving, loyal, thoughtful, compassionate, travelers and people who know how to have fun.

I admire child-like curiosity about the world and those who are interested in having meaningful conversations. I admire people who are motivated to join together and make change.

Some of my hobbies include fashion, traveling, being creative and thinking creatively, theatre, art, music and I especially like to talk.

I look forward to sharing adventures with my child both near to home and abroad.

My son or daughter will be part of a diverse and welcoming family of friends who are eager to bring him or her into the fold. Many of my closest friends are adoptive parents so I'm hopeful my child will feel right at home in our community.

I am grateful that my child will get to meet people from many different cultural backgrounds and enjoy unique childhood opportunities, like traveling abroad and being exposed to many different viewpoints.

Most of all though, my wish for my child is that they too will love and live to laugh out loud!

Thank You for Visiting Our Adoption Profile

We want to thank you for considering us as adoptive parents for your child.

We truly appreciate your kindness and strength and look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely,

Monroe

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